Showing posts with label Adoption. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Adoption. Show all posts

Monday, November 2, 2009

Adoption Awareness Month

As we all know, October was Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Now, don't get me wrong, I was greatly affected by breast cancer myself. My grandmother fought it 3 times before it finally took her life in 2002 at the young age of 56.

BUT, October is over. November is Adoption Awareness Month. One of my goals/dreams in life is that Adoption Awareness Month will be as "celebrated" as Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

Today I will write about the need for adoption... taken from the Hands for Hope ministry of Grace Community Church, (we are visiting this church in January, and I will be meeting with this ministry for information of one day staring my own adoption ministry one day).



THE FACTS

What is the need?

* Over 130 million children have lost one or both parents.(1)

* Every 18 seconds another child becomes an orphan, without a mother or father.(2)

* At least 16.2 million children worldwide have lost both parents.(3)
* Every 14 seconds a child loses a parent due to AIDS.(4)
* Conflict has orphaned or separated 1 million children from their families in the 1990s.(5)

Where are they?

* 43.4 million orphans live in sub-Saharan Africa, 87.6 million orphans live in Asia, and 12.4 million orphans live in Latin America and the Caribbean.(6)


* 1.5 million children live in public care in Central and Eastern Europe alone.(7)

* At any given point there are over 500,000 children in the U.S. Foster Care system.(8)


* In some countries, children are abandoned at alarming rates, due to poverty, restrictive population control policies, disabilities or perceived disabilities, and cultural traditions that value boys more than girls.(9)

What about AIDS?

* More than 14 million children under the age of 15 have lost one or both parents to AIDS, the vast majority of them in sub-Saharan Africa.(10)
* By 2010, the number of children orphaned by AIDS globally is expected to exceed 25 million.(11)

* AIDS is more likely than other cause of death to result in children losing both parents.(12
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* As the infection spreads, the number of children who have lost parents to AIDS is beginning to grow in other regions as well, including Asia, Latin America and the Caribbean and Eastern Europe.(13)


What happens to the children?

* Children are profoundly affected as their parents fall sick and die, setting them on a long trail of painful experiences often characterized by: economic hardship, lack of love, attention and affection, withdrawal from school, psychological distress, loss of inheritance, increased physical and sexual abuse and risk of HIV infection, malnutrition and illness, stigma, discrimination, exploitation, trafficking, and isolation.(14
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* Orphaned children are much more likely than non-orphans to be working in commercial agriculture, as street vendors, in domestic service and in the sex trade.(15)
* Unaccompanied boys are at high risk of forced or 'voluntary' participation in violence and armed conflict.(16)
* Orphanages, children's villages, or other group residential facilities generally fail to meet young people's emotional and psychological needs.(17)


What about foster care?

* On average, children stay in foster care for 30 months, or 2.5 years.(18
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* 118,000 children were waiting to be adopted on September 30, 2004.(19)


* On average, those children waiting for adoption have been in foster care for 43.8 months, almost 4 years.(20)


* Each year, an estimated 20,000 young people “age out” of the U.S. foster care system. Many are only 18 years old and still need support and services. Of those who aged out of foster care:(21)


Outcome(22)


Earned a high school diploma: 54%


Obtained a Bachelor's degree or higher: 2%


Were unemployed: 51%


Had no health insurance: 30%


Had been homeless: 25%


Were receiving public assistance: 30%

Is there any hope?

* Yes. There is a Father who infinitely loves each orphan and calls His people to join Him in caring for the fatherless. 


* If only 7% of the 2 billion professing Christians in the world would care for a single orphan, looking after the child in their distress, there would effectively be no more orphans. We can each do something.

Click here to see the sources of the statistics.

Friday, September 18, 2009

Did you know that I am a published author?

I received my final proof of my book! I just have to ok it and send it back and I will hear from Marketing! YEA!!! :) I will let you know as soon as it hits stores. This book is perfect for any Christian, and anyone who is/has adopted.

Forgive the glare from the flash... Here is a sneak peak at my BOOK!!!

our FAV page! :) Do you see Jersey joining in the prayer? :)

Friday, September 4, 2009

Ad♥pti♥n Bug

If you are adopting, like me, or if you know someone who is- check out Adoption Bug! Great gift ideas since the Christmas season is getting close! This site is on my "I want" list for sure! :)

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Christ Centered Decorating

Sorry for my blogging hiatus! I went to summer camp with the youth group, (we work with the middle schoolers at our church). It was a blessing as always! :)

My FAVORITE passage in the Bible is Matthew 6:25-34. I have it in my house at least 4 times, in different ways of course. :) Here is number 5! :) I am hoping to adopt two little girls, (prayers appreciated). If I do get them, the eldest's room will be Birdies and Flowers, so the theme of her room is Matthew 6:25-34! She will have a worry free room! ;)



I used left over art board, and paints I already had. This was absolutely free!

Help keep Christ center in your life by keeping Him the center of your decorating! :)

Monday, July 20, 2009

Hearing the Call

So, do you know something that grinds my gears?

Okay, it is socially acceptable to tell everyone, "Don't purchase your puppy, you should adopt!" Why don't we do the same about people?

God has given me a great burden for orphans, and I know that this is one of the main reasons God put me on this earth. Recently, we have felt called to adopt from Africa. I have a friend who has adopted from Ethiopia, and we are planning to go the same route. Please pray as we pray and prepare for this process. It may be quite awhile before me begin it, but prayers would be greatly appreciated! :)

Here is something to chew over: growing up I used to wonder why anyone would adopt overseas when we have so many orphans here in America.* Here is what I realized:
Orphans here have
1. Running Water
2. Roofs over their heads
3. Access to education
4. Shoes
5. Opportunities to hear about Jesus
6. IT'S AMERICA- besides not having a family, they have access to pretty much everything!

Now, don't get me wrong, American children still deserve to be adopted- ALL ORPHANS SHOULD BE ADOPTED! I am just showing you why my above train of thought (*) was incorrect.

I hope you open your heart to hear the call from the Lord in regards to adoption.


There are over 200,000,000 orphans in the world, and if only 7% OF THE CHURCH would adopt there would be no need for orphanages.
Think about it!

Below, some precious Ethiopian angels. My heart aches.